The friendship anti-climax

Now I’m really confused… Why would you delete and block someone on Facebook and then add them on LinkedIn? LOL Are you having withdrawals, my dear? Can’t live without me? Want to know what I’m up to?? Well, the feeling is NOT mutual! Fuck. Directly. Off. Perhaps it was just an unfortunate online-stalking slip of…

Say the things.

I have this terrible habit of not saying what I want or need to say to people before it’s too late. I never used to be this way, I used to make a point of telling people what they meant to me and how much I loved them. The year that I turned 13 I lost…

OK to be OK

Today was a hard day for a lot of people in my world. Another young life lost to the vicious and indiscriminate bastard that is cancer. I don’t know the two local young ladies whose lives have been recently cut so brutally short, but I am witnessing the impact that their loss is having on the people and…

I Lived!

Well, it’s now 3am so the day is technically over, but it’s only now that I am beginning to process all that was. Performing with Soul Song Choir is something with which nothing can compare. The annual Soul Song Celebration is now the event that I plan my whole year around. I LOVE IT! It’s…

Care Factor

I have a slight case of OCD. It’s a diagnosis that I had never even contemplated before I received it. Remember Jack Nicholson in “As Good As It Gets”? Remember how he had to lock the doors multiple times, couldn’t step on cracks or lines and was a full-on germaphobe?? That’s the image I get when I…

Generation Whyyyyyyyy?!?!?

GENERATION WHYYYYYY?!?!? While out on the town on a recent girls’ night, I met this gorgeous little 18 year old and ended up sitting at the same table as her, having shouted conversations across the table while my friend pashed on with her older brother. I didn’t hear most of what she said so there…

When I grow up…..

“When I grow up I want to be… (insert job title here)”. We’ve all heard it and we’ve all said it. I’m 35, and I’m still saying it. Even my 13 year old has a more focused career projection than I do. The problem for me is that I can do lots of things. Not…

Things That Make Me Go Hmmmm….

Well, here it is: my first blog. This page has been set up for quite a while now, and on my to-do-list for even longer. Why has it taken me so long to get back here? Why am I even here, in this wonderful WordPress world at all? There are lots of reasons for delaying…